Comments on: Yom Kippur Day Spa

By: The Hasid

The Hasid — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 04:46:51 +0000

DW – my Dad calls himself The Human Compactor for this reason. I’m happy to report that the attitude has filtered down! There’s nothing I love more than re-working leftovers til every bit of the original meal is consumed in its entirety.

ra – my Grandmother always used to refuse maror on Pesach – each year the same wryly delivered line: “My life has been bitter enough!”

By: David Werdiger

David Werdiger — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 03:39:58 +0000

The attitude of Holocaust survivors to the Jewish fast days is an interesting one. Some only observe YK and Tisha B’Av and ignore the others. The “we fasted for five years” line may reflect the sentiment that fasting evokes particularly difficult memories of a time when there was nothing to eat. As the child of a survivor, I was brought up never, ever let food go to waste. This is so strongly ingrained in me that I’m always the one in the house stuck eating leftovers that no-one else wants.

Another comment I heard in response to the suggestion that someone go to mikveh (ritual bath) was “I was already immersed in fire”.

By: ra

ra — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 03:18:12 +0000

Hasid, I also find the comments people make about how hard it must be to fast for YK somewhat odd – particularly given some of the older members of my family tell me, “Fast? Darlink, I don’t fast anymore, ve fasted for five years.”

By: The Hasid

The Hasid — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:39:47 +0000

Thank you for this very thoughtful post. I love Yom Kippur. I’m generally not a very ‘spiritual’ person, but I find YK to be an excellent, peaceful time for reflection. I feel reminded of my insignificance in the world, but also my ability to do good, improve myself and affect positive change for others. It’s a bit of a contradiction, but it makes me feel simultaneously big and small.

It always amuses me a little when people comment on how hard it must be to fast for 25 hours. While it’s not easy, there’s a lot to be gained from from the experience of completely fasting for a day. It’s very humbling.

By: ariel

ariel — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 05:35:37 +0000

David, this is a great metaphor.
Rabbi Aron Moss in Sydney used this week’s dust storm to describe the necessity of YK in response to a question sent to him.

Regarding mikveh, I believe that on erev YK it’s almost become a halacha for everybody to go to the mikveh. There is only one mens’ mikveh in Sydney, so I tend to go to a small bay where very few people tend to be (although on a Sunday arvo it may be quite full, so I may have to go elsewhere)

Also David, I would venture that the Chabad custom to sing Ha’aderet to the tune of La Marseillaise came from the Rebbe’s time in France during WW2…

By: David Werdiger

David Werdiger — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 03:48:01 +0000

Fantastic question Sadducee – check out this which discusses it.

We also sing Ha’aderet V’ha’emunah to the French national anthem – not sure if that’s connected at all.

By: Francis

Francis — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 03:46:45 +0000

Nice metaphor David, although it did remind me of an acquantance who had a Reform mikveh literally at a Day Spa (which has hot springs), which I guess was both relaxing and somewhat spiritual!

By: TheSadducee

TheSadducee — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 03:20:21 +0000

“In our shul, before the blowing of the shofar, we all dance to the tune of Napoleon’s March.”

-why? The Alter Rebbe didn’t actually support Napoleon – you’d probably be more honestly suited to God Save the Czar wouldn’t you?

By: rachsd

rachsd — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 03:14:14 +0000

Somewhat related to the Yom Kippur / day spa metaphor, there is a custom to go to mikve (not a day spa, but it’s quite physical and involves water) on Erev Yom Kippur. It’s for men and women regardless of relationship status, and I find it a really great way to prepare for the big day. I’m not sure of the details for men, but for women there are two mikves in St Kilda East/Ripponlea (if you don’t want to go in the sea) and they will both be open in the morning of Erev YK.